CYBER CRIME AGAINST WOMEN BY DEBARATI HALDER
Last week I was invited to conduct a
session in the workshop on violence against women which was hosted by Department of criminology and criminal justice sciences, Manon Manium Sundaranar University , Tirunelveli, Tamil Nadu. I didn’t
expect such a large gathering of students (mostly girls) for my own session
which was on online violence because many of these students hardly frequent
Facebook ( I did a small research on it) and some how believe that they are
immuned from any sorts of victimisation that I mentioned in my book “Cyber crime and the Victimization of Women: Laws, Rights, and Regulations. Hershey, PA, USA: IGI Global. ISBN: 978-1-60960-830-9
My first job was to break their myth. When I was doing my home work for the session, I came across good amount of materials which advocated that these girls were not the only ones who believed in this myth. There are some myths which many girls and their families inIndia feel to be true. I am going to
showcase some of these myths and break
them today:
My first job was to break their myth. When I was doing my home work for the session, I came across good amount of materials which advocated that these girls were not the only ones who believed in this myth. There are some myths which many girls and their families in
Myth no.1: I don’t have a Facebook account.
Hence no one can make a dirty fake image of mine.
Reality: wrong! The perpetrator can
still make a fake image of yours and float it in the Facebook if he has your
basic information like your institution, your name or your residential address
if he really wishes to. He may not even need your picture!
Myth no.2: Facebook is dangerous because people may use
it to actually victimize me.
Reality: nonsense! Know the safety
rules and how to use it properly. It can turn into a huge resource for good.
Myth no.3: If I frequent the net, I
will become a beloved for the hackers.
Reality: Well, stop being paranoid.
Do not be ‘open’ to forcefully close your windows. Share only limited
information and pick up a habit of changing your passwords, security question
and secondary email address every fortnight. Choose good sites to get useful
information.
Myth no.4 : Cell phones are causes
for rape, elopement and love marriage
Reality: really? Then why these issues keep
coming back since pre-cell-phone era in India ? Cell-phones are mediums of
communication in the same way (obviously better versions) as were hand written
letters and landline phones. Learn yourself and teach your children to use it
for good communication and not for creating terrifying sensational news
headlines.
Myth no.5: a girl should never be
allowed to access internet including emails and popular social networking sites
and cell phones unless she is married and in safe custody of her husband.
Reality: absolutely ridiculous
thinking! Girls must be trained about good communication and bad communication
in the digital communication technology. This will make them confident and
reach the emergency services without anyone’s help.
Myth no.6: men are always dangerous
when with camera devices
Reality: Some men who are unaware of cyber etiquettes
should be blamed for creating bad examples. But not all men are equal.
Responsible men never misuse their devices.
Unfortunately the recent incidences
of rape and sudden increase in the media report on sexual assault of women in India made majority of women as well as their
families extremely insecure. Added with it, the hard realities that misuse of
smart phones and popular social networking sites do damage the reputation of
women and their families have actually strengthened the belief in the unreal
myths. The extreme results can be seen in the ridiculous actions of the village
heads in banning cell-phones for girls in many villages in India . The workshop ended with a strong
note from a wonderful woman professor who emphasized that education and
awareness can reduce the violence against women. True. It stands true for
online violence against women also. Learn how to use the modern digital devices
for good and make the society a better one.
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